5 Things You Must DO to Live a Wonderful Life.

Each person has different priorities in life. For some of us family is in the first place, for others it’s successful business, for someone it is traveling, and so on. Regardless of the goals and desires, we are often faced with the inability to implement all of this, at least at this moment.We find it difficult to understand and accept the fact that something just doesn’t work for us because there are a couple of people in our neighborhood who live exactly like you want to live.

Do you want to know why we don’t always get what we want? Do you want to learn how to change it and finally start to live as we dream of? Would you like to know what successful people do, and how to become successful yourself?

In this article, you will learn how to achieve greater success in life, some kind of tips that have been scientifically proved and are true and confirmed.

1. Think positively

Studies conducted by Barbara Fredrickson from Harvard University, has proven that positive thinking influences person’s life. Your thoughts attracts action. When we think of something bad, this means that we have a tendency to be in the depressive state. While person remains in such mood, he or she is more likely to notice only bad things around, and it happens are on a subconscious level. This only makes us feel even more depressed and doesn’t allow us to break out of this circle of unpleasant events.

How to start thinking positive:

1. Try to smile and laugh as often as possible. Many scientists from all over the world agree that simple smile can make human feel better and get rid of depression.
2. Find something that you like doing and do it. Doing things that you enjoy will help you to stay positive!
3. Keep in touch with positive people.
4. Take care of your health; do sports and eat healthy.

2. Wake up early

Daily schedule and routine in lives of successful people are very important. Even if you don’t have any specific tasks for the upcoming day, try to wake up as early as possible. Biologist Christoph Randler in his interview for Harvard Business Review confirms that the early bird really does get the worm.

Early rise stimulates the better performance of human’s brain; it helps us to understand better essence of certain problems and find fresh and reasonable solutions for them. But don’t forget that you need to get enough of sleep, so try to go to bed early. In addition to the utility of an early rise, it also gives you extra time, which you can usefully spend on anything you like.

3. Act

Many scientific studies show that no matter what goal you plan to reach as result, the action is the best means of achieving this goal. Don’t put off making decisions until later, even the simplest tasks, try to do everything right away.

Katty Kay and Claire Shipmanany, authors ofThe Confidence Code, have proved that action strengthens man’s faith in his own strength. Along with that, grows person’s confidence in himself and his success. To get something, you have to do something first, so don’t be afraid and act, even if you are going through failures and setbacks you must overcome it and do something again.

4. Adapt

The 21^st century is a time of high technology and incredible discoveries. Modern life is much more intense and has faster rhythm, and it’s important to keep up with the world. Catherine Weinberger, the UCSB economist, in her research proved that adaptability is a significant factor for success; she says that bothsmart and socially adept people tend to achieve greater success in life.

If we are talking specifically about the business, you need to create a product or service that is relevant today and will stay relevant in the nearest future. Try to be aware of new changes in rules, trends and standards of the world and society.

Adapting appearance to who you want to become is crucial as well. If you want to be a successful man, observe people who you consider us successful and try to look like them. Look at their clothes, posture, the way they interact with other people. Confidence, your secure body language and good sense of style can help you to open more doors than you would have expected!

5. Cherish relations

Relationships between you and other people are a very important aspect in the implementation of your plans and ambitions. Psychiatrist from Harvard – George Vaillant says:

Try to avoid conflicts, especially if they were caused by some minor misunderstandings.

It’s much better to prevent any conflict at the beginning, just think if it’s necessary or what negative consequence a certain fight may have, and try to calm down, find compromise and come to an agreement. This applies to relationships both with family or friends, as well as with superiors or partners. Remember that some of the people with whom you contact can support your ideas and contribute their implementation.

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Take 100% Responsibility for Your Life – Jack Canfield

One of the most pervasive myths in the American culture today is that we are entitled to a great life—that somehow, somewhere, someone (certainly not us) is responsible for filling our lives with continual happiness, exciting career options, nurturing family time, and blissful personal relationships simply because we exist.

UNDERLINE this principle in life and success will be yours – How to take initiative?

​Our basic nature is to act, and not be acted upon. As well as enabling us to choose our response to particular circumstances, this empowers us to create circumstances. Taking initiative does not mean being pushy, obnoxious, or aggressive. It does mean recognizing our responsibility to make things happen…

How to get Constant Never Finishing Energy for a task – Norman Vincent Peale

How we think we feel has a definite effect on how we actually feel physically. If your mind tells you that you are tired, the body mechanism, the nerves and the muscles accept the fact. If your mind is intensely interested, you can keep on at an activity indefinitely. Religion functions through our thoughts. In fact, it is asystem of thought discipline. By supplying attitudes of faith to the mind it can increase energy. It helps you to accomplish prodigious activity by suggesting that you have ample support and resources of power.

Too many priorities PARALYZE us – John C. Maxwell

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Every one of us has looked at our desks filled with memos and papers, heard the phone ringing, and watched the door open all at the same time! Remember the “frozen feeling” that came over William H. Hinson tells us why animal trainers carry a stool when they go into a cage of lions. They have their whips, of course, and their pistols are at their sides. But invariably they also carry a
stool. Hinson says it is the most important tool of the trainer….

What really is LEADERSHIP – John C. Maxwell

Everyone talks about it; few understand it. Most people want it;
few achieve it. There are over fifty definitions and descriptions of it in my personal files. What is this intriguing subject we call
“leadership”?
Perhaps because most of us want to be leaders we become emotionally involved when trying to define leadership. Or, perhaps because we know one, we try to copy his or her behavior and describe leadership as a personality.

THE MISCONCEPTION: You are a rational, logical being who sees the world as it really is.

You hold in your hands a compendium of information about self-delusion and the wonderful ways we all
succumb to it.
You think you know how the world works, but you really don’t. You move through life forming opinions and cobbling together a story about who you are and why you did the things you did leading up to reading this
sentence, and taken as a whole it seems real.

Dump your garbage dump thinking – Learn the right way to THINK

A number of years ago oil was discovered on some Oklahoma
property that belonged to an old Indian. All of his life the old Indian had been poverty stricken, but the discovery of oil  suddenly made him a very weaIthy man. One of the first things he did was buy himself a big Cadillac touring car. In those days, the touring cars had two spare tires on the back. However, the old Indian wanted the longest car in the territory so he added four

How to get PEOPLE to LIKE you – Norman Vincent Peale

We might as well admit it. We want people to like us. If someone says, “I don’t care whether people like me or not,” he is not telling the truth.A poll was taken among some high school students on the question, “What do you most desire?” By overwhelming majority the students voted that they wanted to be popular. The same urge is in older people.